219. Is Matriarchy Possible? When Women Are Given Power

In today’s episode, Betsy & Kate reflect talk about the possibility of matriarchy as opposite of our current system of patriarchy.  What might happen when women are given power?  We get into the nitty gritty of this today, as well as historical examples of cultures that revered women (and how they were peaceful).

In today’s episode we talk about: 

  • Why Barak Obama fantasized what would happen if women were in charge of every government for 2 years and what he believed might happen.
  • How there has never been a matriarchy in what is known historically, but there is evidence of matrilineal societies where the feminine was valued, revered, and honored.
  • There are still matrilineal societies (160 around the world), and these cultures value partnership vs a dominator model of governance.
  • How the best clue to a nation’s growth and development potential is the status and role of women in that culture.
  • The broken systems, including what we are recently seeing at Cornell.
  • 5 ways we can start building more matriarchal systems

Resources Discussed In Today’s Episode: 

Other Episodes You Might Like: 

Episode 207: Shannon Algeo: The Power in your Hands

Episode 206: A Fresh Take on Perfectionism

Episode 202: The Severing of the Wild Woman

Episode 177: Are you dysregulated?

Episode 174: Codependent No More

Today’s Episode sponsored by:

Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/)

Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/)

Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/)

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